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Vanessa (Nessa) Gray of Dover, DE passed away on Tuesday, February 11, 2025, after a long battle with liver disease. She was 34 years old.
Vanessa was born October 1, 1990, to Patricia Ward and the late Donald Gray.
She was a Vet Tech in Georgia. Vanessa was a die-hard fan of the Philadelphia Eagles and the Tennessee Volunteers. She loved her dogs Lola, Luna and Lilo and cat, Lennox.
Vanessa was born in Indiana, moved to Maine at 4 years old and moved to Georgia in 2009, where she met her soulmate, Jason Toscan.
She is preceded in death by her father, Donald Gray; grandparents, Andrew and Dorothy Gray; niece, Olivia Gray; Uncle, David Berry and cousins, Alex Cheney and Jessica Thombs.
Vanessa is survived by her mother, Patricia Ward and stepdad Thomas Ward; her sister Melissa Gray and her husband Eder Minega; her brother, Andrew Gray and his wife Diane Blevins Gray; nieces, Symiah, Shanelle, Amina and Rylee; nephew, Graysen; grandparents, Barry and Shirley Cheney, many aunts, uncles and cousins, Charles and Ann Berry.
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